英语演讲稿 - 情Love(共32页)21200字.docx
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英语演讲稿-情Love
eversincethedawningofthehistoryofmankind,therehavebeenmyriadsofdiversifedinventions,discoveries,andevenexplorationsofthemysteriesoftheuniverse.infact,thehumanbeingsaresointelligentthatwehavesolvedalmostallkindsofproblemswehaveconfrontedwith.
however,nobodyhasevermadeoutwhattheword“love”reallyconnotes,noteventhemostfamouspeoplesuchasgreatpoliticians,saintsandphilosopherscanclarifythemeaningof“love”,neithercantheydealwiththevariousaffairsconcerninglove.loveislikeahugeboundlessnetthatshroudsusallin.wecanneitherbreakawayfromitnorescapefromit.likeitornot,wearealwaysentangledinit.itisaninvisiblenetwithoutanyform,thatshroudsindifferentpeoplefromdifferentangels;itisamercilessnetthatupsetsusoreventorturesustodeath.itisalsoasupremenetwhichalmostnohumancansurpass.eveniftheyareheroes,emperors,wisemenorsaints,theycandonothingbutshowtheirhelplessnessinitsface.thosewhocanbreathethroughtheholesofthenetshouldberegardedbeyondcommonnessandvulgarity.lovecanbringustemporarycomfortandhappiness,butmostlytheybringaboutannoyanceandsufferings.maybethisisthereasonwhymanypeoplehaveseenthroughtheillusionsofthemortalworld.howeveritisnotsoeasytobreakawayfromthisboundless,ever-existingandindifferentnetoflove.
loveisvariedandchangeable,butroughlyitcanbedividedintothreecategories:
familylove,fraternalloveandamatorylove.notlikemonkeykingwhojumpedoutoftherocks,wewereallbornaftermotherspregnancyofaboutninemonths,hencewehavecountlessrelativeswithoutanychoice:
parents,grand-parents,andgrand-parents-in-law,unclesandaunties,brothersandsisters,etc.andoncelookingatthegenealogicaltree,wellseenoend.familyloveiswhateveryonelongsfor,butthewarmthandsupportfromourbelovedonesarewhateveryoneyearnsforthemost.buthowmanyofusaredeterminedtocontributetoourbelovedone?
andhowmanydontexpectrepaymentandrelaxed.conscienceeveniftheyhavethedesireandpreparationtocontributetotheirbeloved.thedistancebetweenrelativesisdifferentandsoaretheirexpectations.butsinceitsverydifficulttoknowhowmuchweshouldexpect,alotofworriesanddistressesemerge.
parentsalwaysexpecttheirchildrentoshowtheirfilialobedience,oratleastpaythemfrequentvisitsaftertheyhavegotmarried.ifthechildrenfailtodothis,theyfeelhurtandupset,andtheyllevencomplainabouttheirchildren,becausetheyjustcantunderstandwhytheirchildrendontcareaboutthemafterwhattheyhavedoneforthechildrenforsomanyyearstobringthemup.nevertheless,onesexperiencedetermineshisideology.youngchildrenarenaturallyattachedtotheirparents,butwhentheygrowup,speciallywhentheyhavemadetheirownfriends,andgotmarried,whattheyneedmostisindependenceandfreedom,andparentssometimesmightbecometheirburden.oncethereisgenerationgap,itbecomesmoredifficulttocommunicateandthiskeepsthemawayfromtheirparents.objectivelyspeaking,theyneedmoreindependenceinordertoachievesuccess.inthepresentsociety,whatthechildrenwanttohavemostistheeconomicsupportfromtheirparents,nottheirmoralsupportorguidance.theywouldcomplainifyoureconomicsupportisnotuptotheirexpectations.thelovefromunclesandauntieswouldnaturallydwindleaftertheyhavehadtheirownchildren.onlythelovefromgrand-parentsandgrandparents-in-lawispureanddemandsnorepayment,andtheyarealsotoooldtowaitforanyrepayment.asforthedistantrelatives,theirlovedependsontheirneeds,justastheoldsayinggoes“thepoorhavenofriendseveniftheyliveindowntownwhiletherichhavedistantrelativeseveniftheyliveindeepmountains”.grannyliu,adistantkinsfolk,inadreamoftheredmansions,claimskinshipwiththewealthyjiafamily,thinkingthatshemaybenefitfromitinsomeways.liumighthaverunawaywithoutanytracesifthejiafamilyhadbeenapoorone.anothersayinggoes“closeneighborsarebetterthandistantrelatives.”themostdifficultistomanagetherelativeswhendoingbusinesstogether,justaswhatthetvseriesprogramliulaogendiscloses.itisallrighttostaypoortogether,butassoonasthebusinessgrowsprosperous,thegroupwillbecomeestrangedandevendissolvebecauseoftheunfairdistribution.familyloveislikeamazewhichweshouldntgotoofarintoit,otherwise,wellsurelygetlost.loveisabilateralmatterandunilaterallovecanonlyleadyoutonowhereinspiteofyourgoodintentions.familyloveis,sometimes,likeanarrangedmarriage,leavingnochoicestoyou.duetothedifferentexperiencesandtastes,stayingtogethertemporarilycanbeentertaining,whilelivingtogetherforalongtimecanonlybeboringduetothelackofcommoninterestandunderstanding.howcanwecommunicatewitheachotherwithoutunderstanding?
parentshavethedutytosupportthechildrenwhoarenotyeteconomicallyindependent,andchildrenhavetheresponsibilitytoprovidefortheelderlyparentswhoarelackofeconomicabilitiestosupportthemselves.exceptthesetwokindsofdutieswhichwemustfulfill,otherkindsoflovebecomeconventionalformalitiessuchaspayingvisittothesickorthedeadandgivingpresentstothenewly-bornetc..
noloveamongrelativeshasbecomeanormalphenomenonwhichneednttobefussedabout.whatsworseiswhenloveiscontaminatedbymoney.soonerorlaterwewillgethurt.thesoonerwegetoutofthisnetoflove,themorewecanpreservebeautifulmemories.
wearenotlivinginvacuum,andthesocietyisformedofvariouskindsofpeople.aslongaswewanttolive,study,orwork,wehavetocontact,communicateandcooperatewithothers.thosewhoenjoycommoninterests,mutualunderstanding,commonundertakingsandcommonbenefitsbecomefriends.
somefriendsarecalledfair-weatherfriends,becausetheyaretogetherjustforentertainingthemselvesbyeating,drinking,andgossiping.oncetheresnothingtoeatanddrink,theirfriendshipisfinished.somearespiritualfriendswhosharecommonambitions,pursuitsandeducation.“theyenjoytalkingandlaughingwiththegreattalentsandnevermakefriendswiththegood-for-nothings”.thebestexampleswouldbeyuboyaandzhongziqioftheancienttimeswhoarefamousnotonlyfortheirloftymusicbutmainlyfortheirloftycharactersandmutualunderstandingandappreciation.theycaredverylittleaboutmaterialwealth,sotheirfriendshipisknownas“gentlemensfriendshipaspureaswater”.thethirdtypeoffriendshipbelongtothosewhoshowtheirutterdevotiontoeachother.theyarereadynotonlytosharewealandwoebutalsotodieforeachother,likethethreebrothersliu,guanandzhanginthenovelromanceofthethreekingdoms..weallwishtohavethiskindoffriendship,butitsofgreatdifficultyfortheordinarypeopletobeasdevotedastheywere.
fraternalloveorfriendshipiswide-rangedandflexible.generallyspeaking,everyoneisourfriend,justaschairmanmaosays“ourfriendsareallovertheworld”.buttranscendage,sex,nationality,stateandeconomicconditions.tothemthemostimportantiscommonbenefit,commoninterestandunderstanding.friendshipisformedduringthecourseofstudying,workingandfighting.thebattlecompanionswhohavesurvivedmanyhazardsusuallyenjoylong-lastingfriendship.
however,fraternalloveisnotstable.beingawayfortooalongtime,losingallcommonbenefits,friendswillbecomeestranged.oncetheirinteresthaschanged,theynolongerunderstandeachother,andeventhiswouldharmfriendship.atalltimesandinallcountries,manyclosefriendsandbattlecompanionswhoonceworkedtogetherandfoughttogetherbecameenemiesintheend.quietafewoftheemperorsinancientchinaevenkilledthosewhohadhelpedthemfoundtheirdynasties.thetaipingheavenlykingdomwouldnothavefailedifithadntbeenforthecontendingandmassacringamongthethosewhofirstroseinrebellionatthebeginningoftheuprising.whatelseweneedtopayattentiontoisthatsomefriends,afterbeingawayfromeachotherfortoolongatime,havelostsomuchoftheiroriginalcharactersthatwhenmeetingagain,youwillfeelthatyouarestillthesameasyouwere,whiletheyarenolongerthemselves.theymayhavethesamefeelingaboutyou,sosometimesitsbetternottomeeteachotheragain.asthechineseproverbgoes“friendshipcannotlastforthreeyearsandflowerscannotstayinblossomforthreemonths”.itsnotsoeasytomaintainrealfriendshipwhichneedsmutualunderstanding,toleranceandsacrifice.anykindsofharshtreatmentwilldamagefriendship.
amatorylovehasbeenamysteryforages.theresneitheracriteriontojudgenoracommonruletofollow.nobodycantelltheexactreasonswhyloveemerges.itisnotalwaysbecauseofbeauty(theuglydoorkeeperquasimodointhehunchbackofnotredameislovedbythebeautifulgypsygirlesmeralda),norkindness(hitleralsohashismistress),norwisdom(eventheblockheadmaysometimesmarryabeautifulgirl),norstrength(somelovestartsfromsympathy).trueloveislikegettinganelectricshock,shakingoursoul.itisasweetdream,akindofintoxication,indulgence,andendlesspassion.
truelovedoesntneedalongtimetogrowup,tomakeclearthefamilytreeoftheother,neitherdoesitneedsthetimetolookaheadandbehindagainandagain.loveisnotmarriage,whichusuallystartsfromlove,butdoesntalwaysdependonlovetomaintain.long-lastingmarriagec
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